“What do you want to do now?”, “Have you chosen something?”, “ Look, the other guy is much better than you”… “Think he’s not that capable”… “All that is left now might be to marry her off into a well and rich family” … “Oh no! Will this be enough to feed your family” … “Maybe he will live all of his life like this.”

Got it? Yes, I’m talking about that particular stage of all our lives where we just realize the answers to questions and situations our teenage has been going through and then again immediately get prepared for the most challenging and stressful exam of life “The life deciding factor – Standard JOB”, according to society standards, which is actually not, in mine and many of ours.

I do agree, we definitely need a financial basis to live in today's situations of ever-rising prices, never-ending diseases, unwanted status, and absolutely unnecessary respect it brings. But not at the cost of losing our own dreams and goals we’ve been saving for years.

Have you ever thought of this! Unlike the water cycle, carbon cycle, oxygen cycle, and food cycle, we’ve made our cycle which probably no one has ever named, but made everyone follow. And this special cycle of ours includes being born, going to school at the earliest age, finishing all the home works, hectic work, pass all the classes, get top grades, being a good boy or girl all along, obeying everybody, get into a top tier college, finish it with good grades, get a highly paid standard job right after completing studies, well! let’s stop here. Because there are people who realize and fall out of the cycle sometimes after this point. So, this is it, our very own cycle of no name. Maybe let us all give it a deep discussion in deciding its name later.

And most importantly, never forget that they have their special standards set. We do live in a democratic country but inside the trap set by those democratic people. And anything beyond that standard is completely underestimated to the level of changing the mind of one to get captivated to those rules again. This is the real sickness of todays society, and its cure? We know it, but we’re all madly sick in increasing that sickness in afraid of getting adapted to the new things which may probably erase and decrease the value of the current ones they’ve set. Neither do they change nor let us. Even if you still want to, then be brave and be ready to face those stones coming towards, which have no capability of damaging you on the outside, but has a huge stamina of rupturing you on the inside. Don’t worry, they themselves run to you to help you heal it,, once you prove them wrong and stand high.

What’s your Dream?

Dream, is not what your mother wanted you to do, not you father said you to do, but what interests you the most and what you wanted to do.

Yes, we all have such sought of dream dreamt once or ever in our life. Some succeed in fulfilling it beyond all the odds, some compromise with trap set and go ahead and some fail. Remember, those who failed are not incapable, they are just made choiceless in their interests and they just fall a little behind in finding the right path, which is more than enough for them to bring them back to the trap.

Just like a fish being judged for not being able to climb a tree, you cannot be judged in what doesn’t interest you and what’s not your cup of tea. Of-course, may be a fish can be trained to climb a tree, but it loses its originality in the process.

Some of want to become an artist, some of us want to be writer, some of us want to be an entrepreneur and so on…. But all of our parents mostly know is about engineering and medicine out of hundreds of professions. I don’t say all, but the most. The most important aspect of all this is the “dignity of labour”, this has been ruling the society since a very long. Every profession has its own uniqueness and importance. What’s the whole society without those so-called labelled small unprofessional professions, can we live without them, same goes with the farmer, is it possible to fill your tummy with all the fame and money you earn without them producing food.

So, never ever look down on any kind of profession. Everything has its own beauty and significance hidden. All these other things are just made up by us, which are absolutely insignificant. And so whatever you want to become, never look down on your own dream and interest, because it becomes worthless only if you make it worthless.

You definitely will have lot of thoughts about this and that battling around your head before taking that one step. And that battle weakens you very badly. But remember some confusions lead to clarifications in a new way. Just be patient and trust the process. Most of all believe in yourself. Have that one specific dream and goal well written in your mind?

So, what’s yours? Have you found out? If not do it as sooner as possible.

And again, don’t blame them for doing such things when you have no clarity on what you do and what you want to do, because that gives them a chance to exploit you and drag you, their way. When you have a clear vision, that strong decision gives you all the enough strength to stand against everything. Just manifest strongly, that is all that matters, everything you want to can be done.

So, be patient and be clear, because you have it all. Avoid that social stigma and fly around you own dreams and beliefs. GOOD LUCK.

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