What is Attachment?

In today's generation, Many people get attached to any person or any other things like their pet or their most favorite thing. 

Sometimes, We feel very happy and Relaxed when we are with someone, We want to be with them for as much as possible. We just feel blessed to have them in our life. But is attachment really good or it can cause some unwanted changes in us? 

Attachment, Good or bad? 

Well, everything has it's two sides, So Attachment also has. 

When you are attached to someone, You make them feel special. You try to make them happy. You try to fulfill their wishes. You forget everything when you are with them or talking to them. Now a question would be coming to your mind am I talking about Love? 

Well, Love also happens when you are attached to someone, But if you are attached to someone, it doesn't mean always You are in Love with them. 

Maybe you are attached to their inner personality, You just love to be connected with them anyhow. You like their presence. You wanted to talk with them when you have no work, or you are lonely. You want their emotional support when you are going through any problem or you are in a bad phase. You want to talk to them when you are stressed or sad. And their emotional support can heal your pain quickly and can build confidence in you. 

Lucky are those who gets their most important person's support everytime when needed...

So, If you have such a person to whom you are very attached and who always supports you and is always with you, Then consider yourself lucky, coz not everyone gets that person in life. 

But if you are attached to someone and they aren't, They don't consider you as important as you consider them, Then it can cause many problems. You get hurt many times and it can be very harmful for your mental health also. This one disadvantage is as dangerous as all goods combined. 

You start overthinking, You feel very bad that you can't even describe it to yourself. Attachment sometimes creates very big problems, And the person who is attached more gets hurt more. 

Attachment can change a person completely. It can also change a person's thinking and behavior for that person. If changes are good, then a person gets a happy time. But if changes are negative and unwanted, Then it is not good for the person who is attached. 

What can be the conclusion? Is attachment good or not? 

Well, attachment is not a bad thing, it happens to everyone. We just need to understand that whom are we getting attached. First timers Don't get to know that they are in the process of attachment, They know this when they miss the person so much and they can't talk to that person and can't live much time without them. 

So, attachment to the right person is very good and Can create many happy moments and happy life also. But attachment to the wrong person can create a very big mess in your life. So don't get too much attached to this kind of people.

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