Love is a lovely emotion. When you are in love, you feel extraordinary. Well, love has an indescribable power to unite two people. It is comparable to the sacred bond that exists between two souls. Meeting the love of your life makes you feel amazing.
The majority of people say that love transcends all other emotions. People who are in love experience heavenly feelings, butterflies in their stomachs, and waves of magic. It's a weird experience; picture the rain and lovely flowers all around you. When you blindly trust anyone, or they smash your trust into bits like glass. By lying to their partners, cheating, and betraying their trust, people corrupted the idea of love. Even worse, some people plan just for financial gain. In an instant, the idea of love vanishes from existence.
What is the reason behind the widespread use of the term "mistake" to reduce adultery, cheating, and infidelity? A "mistake" is never made. It's a sequence of tiny to major, intentional choices made over time to continually engage in an activity—one that they lie about, gaslight, and try very hard to conceal—with someone other than their spouse or partner. Anywhere along the way to adultery, cheating, or infidelity, they may have decided to stop. They made a conscious decision not to. Maintaining an affair while avoiding detection requires a great deal of preparation and foresight. No "mistake" has been made. When you add salt to your coffee or tea instead of sugar or honey, you are making a mistake.
The decision to cheat was made by cheaters. It makes no difference if they were intoxicated or say they had no feelings for that individual. It just serves to demonstrate that they are unreliable in managing you and that they have genuinely persuaded themselves that your suffering is your own fault and that they don't care about your feelings. If their SOs did the same to them, you can bet these individuals would go crazy.
Cheating is a purposeful set of behaviours. One does not simply stumble and land on someone else's genitals. It isn't hitting something by accident or turning the wrong way. It's deciding to crash into a wall on purpose. It doesn't make it any less deliberate if you later apologise for running into the wall. It is utterly ridiculous to think that someone might "accidentally" cheat or that they "just made a stupid honest mistake." You had to either deliberately approach someone else to cheat with, put yourself in a position where people would approach you, or be open to an unexpected approach if you were caught cheating. It is foolish to think that any of these decisions might be an "honest mistake" rather than a deliberate action because they are all conscious decisions that need more effort to make than not to make. You have the option to stay in your relationship with someone you frequently see and not firmly cut them off, even if they approach you frequently.
An indication that someone shouldn't be dating someone is cheating. Get out of that connection if you are unable to remain dedicated. Let the other person recover and get over you. If you are the one who was betrayed. Improve your ability to recognise your relationship's boundaries, objectives, and life path. You should also cut back on the amount of sex. You should be mature enough to state that you are not dating for relationships if you treat it like high school, and you are an adult. It's not an error; they are content to comply because they believe they won't be discovered or because they attempt to avoid being caught by lying. Add in some gaslighting with phrases like "we are just friends" or "you're imagining it." No, it's repulsive behaviour.
Whether your ex had a sexual or emotional affair with you, it was a clear and purposeful choice on their part. Because when they had the chance to cheat on you, they decided to prioritise their own happiness and well-being over the quality and health of your relationship by having the affair rather than telling the other person no and working on their issues with you or ending the relationship first. When they got the chance to cheat on you, they decided to do so since it felt good at the time and carried out the treachery.
Their sexual, physical, and emotional attraction to the other person gradually increased, but they failed to set boundaries with them when they ought to have. And regrettably, even if they claim to love and respect you or express regret, someone who acts in this way does not. Particularly if they have done this more than once and regularly. When they enjoyed themselves greatly with the other person, they didn't feel bad about it.
Therefore, select those who chose you with both their heart and their conscious will rather than forgiving them right away. People who reject every chance to cheat because they regard and cherish your relationship so highly.
Therefore, it is accurate to say that cheating is a decision rather than an error, indicating that people make mistakes by accident. However, it is illegal for someone to cheat on another person. People cheat on friends, family, coworkers, lovers, and more. Their greed drives them to deceive others to benefit themselves. People have material emotions in today's material society, such as the desire to become wealthy or to marry a wealthy person. This is a cruel way to play with the idea of profit and loss; it is not love. Furthermore, the majority of people have the mindset to manipulate other people's emotions and weaken their minds.
Cheating is a decision, not an error. People who cheat on us don't do it accidentally because they permit themselves to end the relationship. At the same time, they are well aware of the fact that they are amusing people other than us. People who are cheated on experience an agony that you will never comprehend until it occurs to you. It leaves people scarred and causes them to doubt their belief in themselves and love. People change forever after being cheated on. It takes a long time for them to recuperate. Cheating is a deliberate decision made by two persons; it does not "just happen."
I think that some of us are still looking for true love because we live in such a realistic environment. Oh! It's true that some people still believe in and hold onto their faith. On the other hand, each person uniquely experiences love, believes in God, and feels that true love exists. Love still has a chance to blossom. For someone you love more, love is a lovely emotion and feeling. Don't wreck someone else's life for your material possessions or pointless profit. Don't be so avaricious as to take advantage of people and weaken their emotions, because nothing lasts forever. I do think that love is still possible. Therefore, spread love and kindness everywhere by becoming a kind-hearted person.