What is it about relatives that makes our relationships with them so complicated and at times, challenging? Are they not the ones who share our history, our DNA, and often, our experiences? Welcome to Raven Thoughts. Today, we delve into the intricacies of the relationships we share with our relatives. 

Let's journey back in time, perhaps twenty years or so. 

A time when family bonds were strong, and the well-being of your relatives mattered. If one was prosperous, they would extend their hand to help a less fortunate relative. It was a time when the collective happiness of the family outweighed individual success. However, as we fast forward to the present day, the dynamics have shifted drastically. Money and material possessions have taken precedence over familial bonds. The rich are sought after, their company desired, while those who struggle are often kept at a distance, out of fear they might ask for help or pose a threat to our hard-earned wealth. Media plays a significant role in this transformation.

It paints a picture of relatives as villains, sowing seeds of negativity in our minds. But let's remember, that media exists for entertainment, not as a guide for real-life relationships. In this world where memes about pesky relatives are aplenty, it's time we start mending our relationships. Change, after all, begins at home. So, the next time you hear about a relative struggling with health issues, pay them a visit. Your presence alone can bring comfort, even if you aren't able to provide physical or financial aid. If a relative is desperately seeking employment, lend a hand in their job search. 

Your efforts could change their life. If you find yourself envying a relative who seems to have it all - the job, the wealth, the perfect life - remember, envy breeds negativity. Instead, celebrate their success and remain hopeful. Life is full of ups and downs. Your time will come. For those who are in a position to help, extend your support to your relatives without waiting for them to ask. It's these small acts of kindness that can make a world of difference. 

In summary, the evolution of our relationships with relatives is largely influenced by societal changes and media portrayals. However, it's essential to remember that family ties are valuable. Embrace positivity, lend a hand when you can, and refrain from envy. You might not agree with everything shared here, and that's okay. The intention is to provoke thought and inspire a shift in perspective, even if it's just a one per cent change. 

Thank you for tuning in to Raven Thoughts. Please feel free to share your thoughts and experiences with relatives in the comments section.

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