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We are individuals and we have the freedom to live our life our way without any laws or rules. We should always think everything in our life will be good and that good things are on our way, there are 2 sides to a coin there is happiness also and there are some moments in our life where we have to struggle and face some hardships.
When people face some difficulties in their life they always feel low and do not know what to do next so they always make some wrong decisions. Some students, if they do not get full marks in their life, try to commit suicide and take such big steps in their lives but one thing we all have to remember is that life is given as a gift to us by god our parents who take care of this life of your child before taking such foolish big decisions, think about our family and first our parents who have given birth to us and they can solve any issue that we face in our life. So if we are facing any difficulties in our life talk to our friends, and family and then make decisions as whenever our mind is sad and not able to think properly then we should take the help of our near ones.
We should enjoy our life sometimes, we should be serious like in our career, our job some family decisions, etc. and sometimes we should enjoy our life also with our friends, family and with ourselves because when we enjoy ourselves we get to know what we want in our life we achieve success and we get to face failures also sometimes so we have to become strong and try harder to get something’s in our life.
Once I asked my mom why we do not get only good news and happiness in our life but we also get to hear rejections and some sad news, then my mom said if god gave you only happiness all over and only good news then what will be fun in your life you will get bored and you will not enjoy your life and you will also not learn any new things in your life. So god is giving you good and bad news in your life. If you get news of rejection and some other failure news then u will learn from that and you will try to learn from your mistakes and these mistakes won't happen again in your life, also learn some new things as it gives us some experiences and even idea how to deal with these situations. Then I understood the value of my life and what my mom had explained to me.
Once it was my birthday and a happy moment when I was studying for graduation one of my favorite teachers and all my friends had planned some surprise for me on my birthday I enjoyed a lot but in the evening my teachers told you would get your results of semester 4 so please take it then we all went to take results I had only one backlog subject I had to clear the exam of it I was worried and tensed that it was the result of graduation higher studies how will I tell my parents how will they react then... I was very sad and started crying then my favorite teacher said dear why are you sad about this small thing I will help you in revising this subject and you will clear it. After this incident, I understood there would be bad as well as good memories with us.