We may come across so many people in our lives but do you know what was the best part about it, "THE OLD MEMORIES WE EXPERIENCED", so frankly speaking how many of us still remember the color of our school bag when we started our schooling? so there is only a 5 chance as we are too small then for now to remember but what is the probability of remembering our first friend in school? so approximately 80%. Don't you find any difference about it, YES it is only about our acceptance in our life that is OBJECT VS PERSON.

The best thing that ever happened to us is our lives are FRIENDS not only once but many times. They may appear from nowhere to everywhere in our lives. Objects or things or gifts given by our friends may fade but not their value because it shows their love, care, and importance towards us. There may be many persons either girls or boys come into our lives constantly and stay with us in our hard and good times. Other than parents (family) these people play important roles in our life.

At every stage, we think they will be with us and do all kinds of stuff whether we are in school, college, at home, or anywhere but as we are growing our mindset changes accordingly, all are not the same until an incident happens which not favoring them or not reaching their expectations and that is the main reason which may lead to man problems, misunderstanding,s and separation.

THE PRESENT SAGA

Nowadays, people are getting very mature, especially girls. In our country, we may have a sex ratio of around 105 boys per 100 girls and that may be the reason a minimum of 1 girl has 3 boy besties, it is common everywhere. As we are all mobile-addicted kids we may find and watch every kind of thing relating to so many concepts.

Teenage is the best age to learn and find many things along with some beautiful team to own some memories for our little happiness for that time. We treat them as our own family and share many things because it makes our minds relaxed. Friendship will always happen without a reason and stay with us only if the two individual mindsets work, only by compromising and understanding.

In this era, we may see people having so much ego and attitude not even listening to their parents but there are cases when they only listen to their friends this may not be correct all the time but in 30% of cases because only family comes first and then next... There are many people who are spreading so many negative vibes around us and making us fools, unsuccessful persons, etc trolls and accusations are making us more interested than successful ones these days. So there are 4 kinds of bad mindset of friends which we need to be careful of:

1. They are people who are our friends and want us to be bad and unsuccessful in our lives in front of others and praise themselves before others, we should be further away from those people but we may not know about their truth and still want to be with them remembering their memories even others are telling about their nature, we think until I see or hear we will not be apart because first friends are the best friends.
2. We will be alone when suddenly a person comes to try to be our friend and think what they do, speak is right, laugh at their silly jokes, and not listen to others even if they commit a mistake they don't accept it and try to make others bad speaking unnecessary, degrading us and go on and at some point, this may lead to big war and they should be eliminated from our lives as soon as possible as we are seeing their true colors.
3. Everyone wants a rich friend, if there is a gang there will be one rich friend who keeps the money for every other on that team. Some people target them and make friends and enjoy which is a big minus in friendship.
4. Next is the mobile kid, who always tries something weird and wants us to behave in their own way. In a friendship respecting others' feelings and decisions is the main key but what they want is only their satisfaction and happiness not understanding our present situation and wanting to behave as they say, even if they shout, fight with their mood swings without any reason we should be quiet and listen to them and doesn't react but if this behavior continuously repeats even though we tell that maybe a problem because it hurts our self-respect.

THE FUTURE SAGA

We may know that in every kind of friendship, there will be some good and some bad. We may develop some good friendships with others, and we should be the ones to have tolerance, understanding, patience, love, caring, sharing, etc. but not only the one every time. We should always find a person with correct behavior though it takes time but never end up fighting and losing someone. Trusting our friends more than others and ending up backstabbed is a more painful feeling than dying because we can't accept them but people nowadays have become more complicated and practical creating sympathy with their acting and making us fools.

Everyone may not be the best but act like that. They say a friend in need is a friend in deed but some people nowadays make Friendship mean "use and throw", friends with only benefits. Everywhere we see a girl and a girl will act like enemies maybe because of their old internal or external affairs but a girl and a boy is a perfect bestie example similar to the North Pole The North Pole doesn't attract but a north pole and South pole attracts in maximum cases in my opinion.

So I may say we may put all our efforts into fighting for a strong friendship but every time it may not be successful. So don't lose hope as everyone needs time to find the correct person who understands and supports us in our life but don't end up with the wrong person although we find them they are not correct leave them as soon as possible. Making too many friends is also a problem because as we have more friends our life becomes more complicated it doesn't mean losing them but rather spending time equally with everyone happily according to their efforts shown for us.

Anyone needs to have that one bestie in their life to share anything in both good and bad times. It is also important to tell and correct our friends if they do anything wrong because friendship is not only about profits and happiness. So wherever you are don't lose your self-respect and make everyone happy with who you are be blessed to have this life because even before taking a hard decision don't panic and just share that with your friends or family to reduce the stress and don't feel what others think just go with the real-life flow and not the movie trend because a true friend will accept everything of you and guide you as you are a part of his life, so take risks, live, eat, chill, learn, enjoy your life be happy, make memories with your comfort zone as loneliness kills you and accept the present. We may have many friends on our list but only one will be special when we discuss any first thing that happens in our life, late night calls, etc. So don't lose that one friend who makes you happy in any bad situation and tolerates all your nonsense stuff, etc.

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