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The tender warmth borne, care, and concern a mother expresses for her foetus, as a "precious burden" in her womb, the unconditional compassion and comfort a father provides, making the newborn trust in some form of belief, manifesting itself as a "loved" kind. Any form of dedication, devotion, and unexpected affection we exhibit towards a person is love. To those dwellers who might question, "Does deprivation or denial to feel or experience it qualify an individual to be bereft of being loved and miserable?"

If the law of nature were to answer yes to it, then a lot of individuals might not find a guiding ray, reviving them from their lowest points and fragments of broken, desolate, and wretched selves. Nature though does not provide the same circumstantial grounds or experiences to feel validated, through love, it does unbiasedly and generously pour and deluge, sometimes drenching and overwhelming, people with an ALARMING note that their existence and presence in the world is quite an irreplaceability and in their absence might create a visible vacuum

According to me, it is fundamental to survival and proposes a definition and purpose of their living, a rough layout that permits and provides a gut to lead their life. A great human developmental psychologist himself elaborated love as a complex terminology scientifically defined that involves a balance between the three fragile components- love, passion, and intimacy. I would say, that all love doesn't necessarily have to meet this criteria, since perfection and perfectionists are uncertain in this universe - learning to accept and being amenable itself is an art to embrace LOVE. Love shall not always have to be an external drive or push in the form of verbal assurances, it could even be mere trust and belief in oneself, It is a manipulative form of self-confidence, respect, and care.

All that entails is that when individuals find and conquer this seemingly neglected, often felt unimportant, greasy, clingy component of life, it would ignite their hearts with warmth, and empathy turning them into a gorgeous, elevated self. This ignition would help everyone overcome cobwebbed, gazy moments of confusion, providing clarity of thoughts and actions, mustering a STRONG WILL to shoulder and tackle trials and tribulations.

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