My Dearest Son,

As I write this, you are just three years old—too young to understand these words, yet they carry my hopes, dreams, and prayers for you. One day, you will grow up and read this, and I hope it serves as a reminder of your father’s love, struggles, and aspirations for you.

Life has not been easy for me. I have faced many challenges from childhood to adulthood—hardships that I never want you to experience. Every struggle and every sacrifice I made was with the hope that my life would be filled with ease, knowledge, and righteousness. I named you Luqman with an intention rooted in faith. In the Qur’an, Surah Luqman speaks of wisdom, gratitude, and guidance—a name of great honor and meaning. I pray that you embody the wisdom of Luqman and that you grow into a man of integrity, kindness, and deep faith.

Unlike the father in the story I recently read, who invested heavily in his son’s education only to feel abandoned, I do not expect anything material from you. You owe me nothing—except respect, love, and remembrance in your prayers. My only desire is to see you grow into a good human being, a righteous son, and a pillar of support to your mother and those in need.

If Allah will, I will be there to witness your journey. But if not, then know this: the best way to honor me is by honoring your mother. She is the one who carried you, nurtured you, and will continue to make sacrifices for you. Stand by her, take care of her, and never let her feel alone.

Life will challenge you, my son, but always hold on to your faith, your values, and the wisdom of those who came before you. Success is not measured by wealth but by the goodness of your character and the love you spread in the world.

This letter is not an expectation from you, but advice from my heart—a piece of me that I want to leave behind for you. A Letter to My Son, Luqman: A Father’s Love, Wisdom, and Caution

When You Were Born: The First Touch of Fatherhood

The day you were born was the most beautiful day of my life. Holding you in my arms for the first time, I felt a love beyond words—an emotion so deep, so pure, that it changed me forever. I whispered your name, Luqman, with the hope that you would grow into a man of wisdom, just as Allah praised Luqman in the Qur’an.

But life took a turn. I had to leave for Chandigarh due to my job. The moment of separation was like a wound in my heart. I would watch you grow from afar, missing your first words, your first steps, your innocent laughter. A father’s duty sometimes demands sacrifices, but the pain of distance is unbearable.

(When you were in my arms, the world was a garden; Without you, life was an empty marketplace.)

The Reunion: Blood Recognizes Blood

Time passed, and when I was posted in Leh-Ladakh, destiny gave me another chance. You came to stay with me, and I still remember the moment at the airport. You saw me, your little hands stretched toward me, your innocent face lit up with recognition.

(Blood ties cannot be broken by distance; A glimpse of you, and even my soul smiled.)

At that moment, I knew that no matter how far life separates us, our bond will never weaken.

Our Late-Night Stories: The Lion and the Tiger

Luqman, you might not remember now, but every night when you couldn’t sleep, I would tell you stories. Your favorite one was about the lion and the tiger—two great beasts, both powerful, yet different. I told you how the lion ruled with pride, while the tiger ruled with patience. (Son, have the courage of a lion, but think carefully like a tiger.)

I hope that as you grow, you will remember this lesson. Power without wisdom is dangerous. Always be fearless, but also be thoughtful in your actions.

Success is Not Just Wealth—Learn from Others’ Mistakes

In today’s world, people often measure success by wealth, power, and status. Many doctors, engineers, and top IIT graduates have fallen into this trap, chasing money at the cost of their ethics and character.

Doctors Who Chose Money Over Humanity

There have been many brilliant doctors who started with noble intentions, but over time, greed took over. Some have been caught in organ trafficking, illegal medical practices, and corruption. Instead of healing, they became businessmen who exploited the sick. (A man of dust became a slave of wealth; The one who came to heal started selling poison.)

• Engineers and IIT Graduates Who Lost Their Path. IIT is considered one of the most prestigious institutions in India. Many IITians achieve great success, but some also lose their way. Cases of IIT graduates being involved in cybercrimes, fraud, and unethical practices are not unheard of.

“What is the use of knowledge if humanity is abandoned?)

The Cost of Moral Failure.

There are countless stories of professionals—engineers, doctors, and even IAS officers—who started with bright futures but ended up in disgrace because they put material gain over righteousness. Bribery, fraud, corruption—these things destroy not only the person involved but their families and legacies. My Appeal to All Parents: Do Not Be Hard on Your Children. To all parents reading this, I say: Do not be too harsh on your children. Yes, we are responsible for their upbringing, morals, and education, but we must not force them into a mold of our expectations. (Hold their childhood hands, but do not become their chains.)

If we raise them with love, with wisdom, and with patience, they will grow into good human beings on their own. Our children do not belong to us—they belong to Allah. We are merely their caretakers in this world.

I  Expect You to Be a Good Human Being

I have no expectations of material wealth from you, Luqman. Unlike many parents who invest in their children’s education with the hope of financial return, I expect only three things from you:

• Honesty and Integrity – No matter what career you choose, be truthful, fair, and just. Never lie, cheat, or deceive others. A single act of dishonesty can destroy a lifetime of credibility.
• Faith and Righteousness – Always remember your Creator. Pray, seek guidance, and follow the principles of Islam. Success without faith is empty.
• Love and Respect for Your Mother – If I am alive, I will always be there for you. But if I am not, never forget the sacrifices of your mother. She carried you, nurtured you, and will always love you unconditionally. Your duty as a son is to stand by her, protect her, and make her proud.

My Health: A Lesson in Gratitude

Luqman, I was once the healthiest person in my family. Until the age of 30, I never needed medicine. I could eat anything I wanted, live freely, and never thought my body would betray me. But life changes in ways we never expect. By the will of Allah, I was tested with a disorder that now restricts my food choices. This is reality, my son. No matter how strong, young, or capable you feel today, your body Is temporary. Take care of it, but never take it for granted.

What I have learned is that good health is a blessing, but even illness is a test that brings us closer to Allah. Do not complain when life becomes difficult. Instead, be grateful for every moment you are given.

Trust: A Bitter Truth of Life

My son, you will trust many people in your life. It is natural to believe in those who are close to you. But I must warn you—be cautious. I have experienced the taste of trust, and it is not always sweet.

There will be times when people you rely on will disappoint you. Some will break your trust, some will leave you in moments when you need them the most. But remember this—if there is one trust that will never betray you, it is the trust you place in Allah.

Do not let betrayal make you bitter. Learn from it, grow from it, but never lose your faith in goodness.

Life’s Struggles: Stand Strong, My Son

Luqman, I have faced struggles before marriage and after marriage. I expected support from my family, friends, and relatives, but when real hardship came, I found myself alone—except for Allah. You must understand this reality early in life. The struggle is not something to fear. It is what shapes a person. There will be times when you feel lost when things don’t go as planned when you face failure. But if you keep faith and remain strong, nothing can break you.

Education and Expectations

I have never asked you to study for my sake. Your education is your journey, and I will never force it upon you. I only hope that whatever path you choose, you walk it with honesty, integrity, and wisdom.

Many people chase success for wealth, power, or social status. But true success is not in material things—it is in the kind of human being you become.

A Father’s Final Advice

Never take your health for granted. Respect the body Allah has given you. Be cautious with trust. Choose wisely who you confide in. Do not fear struggle. It will make you stronger. Trust in Allah above all else. He will never abandon you. Your education is your journey. Choose it wisely, but never for others—only for yourself. Luqman, I love you beyond words. If I am alive when you read this, know that my prayers and support will always be with you. If I am not, remember this letter as my voice, guiding you through life.

Luqman, life will test you in many ways. You will face temptations, struggles, and moments of doubt. But always hold onto your faith, your values, and the lessons I am sharing with you today. Do not be blinded by materialism, and never forget that true success lies in goodness, character, and righteousness.

(Wherever you go, my prayers will be with you; In every journey, you will feel the presence of light.)May Allah guide you, protect you, and bless you abundantly. My dearest son I was a very talented and genius Student. I never see competition because I always did what I faced but due to the early struggle of my life, I faced several challenges after marriage and before marriage. Despite the support that I was expecting from my family relatives and even friends, no one was with me except Allah. This is a real thing for which you have to stand up my son. Struggle is a very important factor and you might also have to face it I hope you are my strong boy and you will face it. Don’t expect anything from anyone except Allah. I and your mom are always with you but time is very great strange you can’t expect the same from us because I have witnessed with same. My mother used to prepare my Tea for a couple of hours but with time, I still do not understand why parents also take u-turn. My dear son, it’s not the fault of the parents be this is the real face of this world. Be bold and strength

With all my love,

Your Baba

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