SPEAKING - The ability of humans that makes it unique from all living beings.

But is speaking too much good???

Come!! Let’s walk through this discussion—  and explore the consequences of excessive talking.

Renowned poet  RAHIM 'S  very popular adage...

"Rahiman iss sansar mein bhati bhati ke log"  This reminds us that there is diversity, diversity in humans themselves - as HUMANS are relatable to psychology - the only science that has no definition.

This HIGHLIGHTS the very concept that people around are bestowed with a variety of perspectives, points of view, thought -processes, attitudes, approaches and behaviour.

So, this reflects in the way they interact, the way they speak, talk, and start a conversation...Even continue with or end a conversation.

BUT yes just like Tabbaco kills, speaking is no less to Tabbaco this too kills, makes things over-expressive, and sometimes too rude, for some it's like I have to speak or else I would lose everything in the world.  This ends up with many negative consequences, we end up demeaning people, body-shaming and especially embarrassing people, we might leave a poor impression, or it could make others feel that one is boasting and is too arrogant and cocky.

So just like it said "LOOK BEFORE YOU LEAP" Similarly think before you speak, only then can a good, positive and cordial relationship be built and maintained.

So, there's a need to apply short, simple, sweet and sophisticated, S4 FORMULA  so that one's real intention and idea or thought behind the words is well and rightly understood.

Be it a professional, formal, social or personal informal or family setting,   EXCESS  is always restricted - one need not sound too amiable or not even too solemn. But what is required is a balance - practice being calm and composed and not turn up being a robotic answer dispenser.

The very point is to be mindful in making reasonable choices of words as per situation, the need of that hour, the setting, the context of speaking and most importantly to whom one is being spoken too.

Speaking too much sometimes agitates& irritates another person it looks like one is trying to show to BE the JACK OF ALL TRADES.

But this doesn't leave a verdict or opinion that NEITHER speaking makes a person look like a cunning, destructive-minded-daily soap vamp nor being silent makes a person look like a well-mannered, religious and ritualistic daily soap lead actress.

So... Come take a vow like mature & sensible people - to speak the right way, in the right place to the right person.

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