“Where there is love, there is life” - Mahatma Gandhi

That night, People around are just enthralled by what is happening in front. Furious cheers from the crowd, No one took their eyes off the ground. Yaah! the stadium just roars! Why is that so? Just because of one person who is walking in, making the whole crowd to blast. People were raring to watch the person on the field. All were tickled pink just on watching the person. That is where I begin to think that how blessed is that person to get that thing from these many people? A question arose, what was the thing he got?

Yes, it is nothing but “UNCONDITIONAL LOVE”

Seeing the world through rose-tinted glasses, most of us have a strong belief that the underlying root for the existence of life in this world is love. I strongly believe that love makes lives. Behind many selfless actions of people, there is a selfish reason called as “LOVE” which makes it the most beautiful stuff in this world.

Does a reason exist?

How do we love? Sometimes the care we get from someone makes us love him/her. In some cases, someone’s kindness makes us fall for them or if someone becomes an exemplar in any field that we wish to work in, we start to love them because of their greatness in that field, considering them as our inspiration. People who make us laugh and enjoy, gain our love. Many times, helps set the first step to love. Like all these, there are many more reasons present. Regardless of all the conditions talked above, here our topic of talk is ‘The love that has no reason’ simply called as ‘unconditional love’ for which no conditions are needed.

Science and it’s deal in love:

We always consider love as our heart’s asset. But, the brain deals a lot with it. Researches from all around the world suggest that once something feels attractive, our brain starts releasing dopamine i.e. the happy hormone. It spikes when something pleasurable is experienced. The attraction towards the person or thing gives a strong feeling of infatuation without any sensible deal. This infatuation creates bonding thus leading to the release of oxytocin which is nicknamed as ‘love hormone’. This is the hormone associated with trust and in cases of building relationships.

The launch of love:

The first and foremost unconditional love we have felt in our life is our parent’s love. The love they provide us plays a very major role in the way of life we are going to proceed then. However, we give them pain un-deliberately, being a little human in their hand we always received love in back. Thus, the topic of unconditional love stems from here. The love from them makes us feel that,

“Holding their hands tight can make everything go right”

We all must have felt that, when loving someone, we cannot resist in forgiving them. Despite of the person’s choices and actions, our love remains the same for that one. Even if that distresss us, one thing always prevents us from hurting them. That miraculous thing is what is termed as unconditional love. Unconditional love is something for which you can’t state the answer when you are questioned: “Why this love?”

“Unconditionally loving someone indirectly means getting ready to forgive someone unlimited times”

The literature of faith talks about some types of love which include romantic love, familial love, brotherly love, and love of God to mankind. Love is an irresistible experience for all lives around the world. Love is not something we can enclose in a circle of a limited radius which just includes humans. It involves creatures beyond our knowledge too.

“The love for all living creatures is the most noble attribute of man” -Charles Darwin

We start to show plentiful love to people we watch, especially someone from the field of sports, cinema and some more. Our love towards them makes us idolize them. We especially feel an aura by just looking at them. The person can also be the one we haven’t even seen once bodily, But we always want to see them happy. Just a small smile in their face leaves us in seventh heaven. Any leaps in their career or any other aspect of their life feel hard for our hearts. We always wish them to go high and we also believe that they will. We badly want them to win. Any fall they face doesn’t make us to hate them or never lower the love we have towards them. This degree of love is what the term unconditional love tries to mean. But do you know that someone else is badly in need of that love from you? Who is that person? No one else. but, you. Yes, every time you fall that limitless belief and love is what your hands vitally require as a support to rise back. Each and every one of us needs this unreasoning enthusiasm over ourselves. We all have to be self-fanatics with all ethics.

Miracle unfolds:

If this wandless magic (love) is given to us, anything can be made to be under our feet. Is that necessary to only expect it from outside? Nope! Be the person who loves yourself as much as no one else can. We have to love ourselves as our parents did. Let’s Give love to ourselves as same as we spray it on our idol. Never get struck by something, let’s forgive ourselves as we forgive a person we unconditionally love. Let’s just fly all the way we can and live the life we dreamt of. Because we deserve everything we dream about. Being a fan of oneself is always essential. It seems like unconditional love is something beyond the senses. Thinking of it always makes me look from a magical aspect without being on a logical aspect. If this spell of magic is put on us, it will make us grab the goal. All the possibilities unfurl, doors spread out and the miracles happen. Because Love is the only miracle which can be felt every moment.

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