Love is a beautiful emotion gifted by God to human beings. Every human in this world has been given a heart by the Almighty, and every heart contains feelings of empathy, love, and care for one's beloved. There is no doubt that people should maintain this bond of caring for others, and in the context of relationships, it is named many, for instance, parent-child relationships, teacher-student relationships, sibling relationships, friend relationships, etc. These are the common emotional bonds that almost every person in the world has been given to, throughout their lifetime. People are even called 'Social Animals' because we have feelings and emotions of empathy, care, love, and helpfulness for others, especially loved ones.
But highlighting contemporary society, many people, especially teenagers, believe that premarital relationships should be taken differently. In my opinion, it's not like that; to make someone your life partner, you have to spend time, share experiences and talks, and nurture a meaningful, long-lasting bond.
Talking about premarital relationships, I believe that in this age of growth, exploration, and learning, it's a wrong practice to have such boyfriend/girlfriend relationships. I agree that love can spark for any of your environmental people, but what truly matters in love is the concern for well-being, right and wrong for your beloved, and a comfortable, safe, and understanding share of your feelings, thoughts, and opinions with them.
Nowadays, despite knowing the fact that this age of adolescence can't differentiate true love and concern from infatuation, adolescents try to make premarital (boyfriend/girlfriend) relationships with the person whom they admire. I believe that if you truly love someone, care about their well-being, and want to spend time with them, consider being friends at this age. True friendship is the most beautiful, innocent, selfless, and lovely bond in this world. Spouse relationships are also like friendship; just the difference is they are tied up in an unbreakable bond between their lives after a certain age.
Trust is something to be built up by every individual for their beloved ones, whether between friends, child and parents, child and teacher, or forever best friends termed as 'life partners'. Nowadays, people easily tell lies and follow wrong practices that prevent building trust between individuals, and thus it diminishes as generation evolution goes on.
Also, in modern times, people are becoming selfish and rude, just to show attitude in front of others. But according to me, if you love someone, then you become selfless and just try for the betterment of others' lives.
Politeness is a vital aspect of human life, which is being destroyed in today's era. You have to respect and be polite to everyone: friends, family, and teachers. Elders are more experienced in life and have the right to scold sometimes for their well-being and betterment (like teachers and parents). By maturation, if you realize that every elder in your life (teachers and parents) wants your best performance in humanities, values, and academics, then your scoldings will gradually decrease because you will understand and try to obey them quickly instead of arguing with them rudely.
In my opinion, if you feel that elders are scolding you without reason, first think about why are they scolding you. Then, to keep your opinion, you should politely express your view, situation, context, and concern (not saying lies, because lies will eventually open up and break the trust of the other person who believed in you and your talks), but NEVER EVER raise your voice in front of elders.
Raising the voice of a small child in front of elders increases the temper and anger instead of keeping the situation in control and dealing with talk calmly.
Life partners are not limited to spouse relationships; they can also be true friends who care about your well-being. The mutual understanding and bond between true friends can be just as strong and meaningful as any marital partnership. Life partners can be anyone who genuinely cares about you, regardless of gender, relationship status, or societal expectations.
For example, I have observed the lovely friendship bond between the worldwide famous boy band BTS, consisting of 7 members - Jin, Jimin, Jungkook, Suga, Taehyung, RM, and J-Hope. Each of them is so understanding and concerned for each other that it makes them the best life partners. They share laughter, talks, interests, experiences, emotional support, and motivation, and even correct each other for wrong practices.
Apart from BTS, my childhood favorite Doraemon Show has also highlighted the importance of emotional bonds and support through various situations and adventures.
Doraemon's unconditional love and concern for Nobita are highly admirable and appreciative, regardless of providing him with magical gadgets; he wants Nobita to be a better person in life and not always be dependent on gadgets. He came from the future to brighten Nobita's future by sparking humanistic feelings in his heart for his beloved ones. In the adventurous, emotional, and futuristically creative movies of Doraemon, the five friends - Nobita, Doraemon, Shizuka, Gian, and Suneo - encourage each other and face every challenge or danger together, according to the storyline.
In conclusion, love, care, and mutual understanding are the essence of human relationships. Building trust, respecting elders, and prioritizing personal growth are vital for a harmonious and fulfilling life. True connections, whether familial or friendly, require selflessness, empathy, and open communication, ultimately leading to a life filled with joy, happiness, and well-being.