Let’s just get this out of the way: being a “good girl” is overrated. It’s cute in theory—always polite, always put-together, always just a little bit too… safe. You’ve been conditioned to smile when you’d rather scream, to nod when you’d rather shake your head, to stay silent when you have a lot to say. But let’s be real for a second—what has that really gotten you?

Here’s the problem: “good girls” don’t make history. Good girls don’t get the good jobs. Good girls get passed over for promotions, get told to smile more, and get told to “play nice.” You know what happens to those “good girls”? They end up stuck. And if we are being honest, you’re way too interesting to be stuck in a rut of pleasing everyone else.

So let me present to you “A Good Girl’s Guide to Being Demonic” No, this isn’t about unleashing some supernatural force (unless, you know, that’s your vibe). It’s about kicking off that “nice girl” act and finally embracing what’s real. It’s about reclaiming your right to be messy, bold, and unapologetic in a world that wants you to be neat, quiet, and contained. It’s about unleashing the power that’s been sitting dormant within you, waiting for permission to be wild, fierce, and yes—demonic in the best way possible.

So, buckle up, buttercup. It’s time to stop being good and start being bold.

Chapter 1: Speak Your Mind—No Apology Necessary

Here’s the thing about being a good girl: you’ve spent years perfecting the art of holding back. The moment when you have an opinion, but you hold it back because you don’t want to rock the boat. You suppress your opinions to keep the peace. You nod along, pretending to agree because it’s just easier than saying what’s really on your mind.

But here’s the thing: your voice matters. Your opinion matters.

The next time someone asks for your opinion, give it. No more tiptoeing around. Don’t apologise for your thoughts—people need to hear them. And if they don’t like it? Tough. It’s not your job to make people comfortable with your truth. The more you speak your mind, the less power the “nice girl” persona has over you. So go ahead—say what’s on your mind, loud and clear. It’s your turn to be heard.

Chapter 2: The Fine Art of Saying "No"

You’ve been raised to be agreeable, to say yes even when you mean no, to put others first, to keep the peace at all costs. Guess what? That’s why you’re probably exhausted.

Newsflash: You don’t have to say yes to everything. Saying “no” isn’t rude, it’s empowering. And let’s be honest, if you’re not making people a little uncomfortable by setting boundaries, you’re probably not setting enough of them.

It’s time to stop saying yes to things that drain you. It’s time to stop pretending to be okay with things you’re not okay with. If someone asks you to do something that doesn’t align with what you want or need, say no. Practice it. “No, I don’t have the energy for that.” “No, I don’t feel like it.” “No, I’m not interested.” No doesn’t need an explanation.

Saying no is an act of self-care, and it’s the first step to breaking free from the “nice girl” trap. You’re allowed to prioritise your own needs—and people will respect you more for it.

Chapter 3: Chaos Is Your New Best Friend

Let’s talk about perfection. The whole “I’ve got it together, I never make mistakes, I have a 5-step plan for everything” vibe? Yawn. Honestly, nobody’s life is a Pinterest board, and anyone who tells you otherwise is lying.

You’re a human. And humans are messy. Beautifully, gloriously, chaotically messy.

Here’s your new mantra: embrace the chaos. Don’t apologise for not having it all together. Chaos is where creativity thrives. It’s where change happens. It’s where you get to say, “Screw it, I’m going to figure this out as I go.”

Demonic isn’t about being perfect—it’s about being real. So stop trying to control every tiny detail of your life and start rolling with the punches. Chaos is your friend now, so give it a warm welcome.

Chapter 4: Saying “F*ck It” Like a Pro

Ah, the power of “F*ck it.” The phrase that sets you free. The magical words that unlock the gates to total freedom.

You’ve been caring way too much about what people think for far too long. Most people have no idea what they’re doing, so why waste your energy trying to live up to their expectations? Why bend yourself to please everyone around you?

It’s time to start saying “Fck it” every time someone tries to make you feel bad about being yourself. They think your outfit’s too much? They don’t like your attitude? Someone’s mad because you didn’t agree with them? F*ck it.

Saying “Fck it” is about not letting anyone or anything hold you back. It’s about being unapologetically YOU, without hesitation or guilt. So, take a deep breath, throw your shoulders back, and say it loud: F*ck it. You’re free now.

Chapter 5: Embrace Your Dark Side (It’s Hot)

Now, let’s talk about your dark side—the part of you that’s unapologetically ambitious, unafraid of confrontation, and totally okay with breaking a few rules. Society’s been telling you to hide this side for years. You’re “too much” when you’re confident, “too aggressive” when you take charge, and “too loud” when you speak up.

But guess what? That’s not your problem.

Your dark side is your power. It’s the side of you that takes what she wants, doesn’t back down from a fight, and isn’t afraid to ruffle a few feathers. It’s the side of you that knows she deserves more and goes after it unapologetically.

Embrace it. Let it out. Demonic doesn’t mean evil. It means raw. It means powerful. It means authentic. And the world needs more of that.

Conclusion: It’s Time to Unleash the Demon

So there you have it: A guide to living your life on your own terms. No more playing it safe. No more shrinking yourself to make other people feel comfortable.

It’s time to embrace your inner demon. Be messy. Be bold. Be loud. Be unapologetic. 

And if someone calls you “too much” for being yourself? Good. You’re finally getting it right.

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