Hi, so yeah I am aryan and today I want to talk about one of the interesting and thoughtful topic and it called as “The Resumable Pause”. I know it’s a catchy title but I sure you will definitely get this in the end. So firstly I want to ask you a small question its like did you ever feel that your life has a pause, even when you do your routine prefectly like going to college, office, sitting with the closed people’s of your life, palying game and planing for the future.

So now you all think, this what a life called in the real terms right?. But here is thing that came when you thing deeply think about your life at that time you will find this type of questions which challenges you to find the answers. Most of the people’s tell me, what is wrong in this type of life we all want to live this since from a long time it’s like a balanced life which I tries to achieve it. But I ask you, consider that this is the fixed routine you lived everyday as that time passes these days are turn into weeks, months and years at that time you still need to live in this days as fixed pattern or a predefined structure.

I know its like a imaginary situation in real life we need to do all this basics for a sustainable future for us and our family. But I want to tell you think for a second at when you achieve all the things or when the things are not going by your way, in these both situation what we do?

We just live the days it consider as the normal days where nothings new happen or which can’t be remarkable in your life at that time it’s like life is in a pause but it is simultaneously running alongside with us.

It’s like a paradox where there is pause but still concurrently it is resume at the other way. So now you all have a question what to do right, how can we change this situation without effecting the substances of life, the only way to settle this feelng is the acceptance. I know it sounds like we give up or surrender to the situations, but I genuiely tells you all its not like that here acceptance incidates that you reailses life flow and from now onwards you not tries to control it rather than you started to be in that flow, like not waste your all energy on the unnecessary worries instead of this we all accept the truth and tries to accept the changeable environment around us.

So now another major thing is we are trying to find the answer of that questions which is not really exists. It means like at this time of life we see other peoples who are trying new thing,achieve good rewards, do so much hardwork and all other essential stuff and on the other side what we do, we just passes the days even when we have all the things we have a sort of incompetely and unworthy feeling,for us its like we lacking behind by all the peoples around us have the great future and a settle life and what we have all these normal days.

Here is the feeling came we didn’t give the values to this days as because they are not provide any new contribution in our life what we want is like everyday of our life wants to be remarkable so then only our life can became a meaning thing. But its not like that we all here in the motivation videos and speeches that live the life like its your last day of it, so then only you get that pump of dopamine to do the work, but in reality we just forgot the beauty of the life we are like rushing in a peaceful garden and also we all have the fear if we don’t compete with our surroundings then we sees as the failure person from the society prespective and eventually as some point its right. See I am not telling you that we need to quick the hardwork and stops to tries on the thing, I am telling that we must need to give the importance to the days were we don’t have control on it I know maybe it can takes more time in this phase we don’t need to loose the faith and hope for us and also we don’t get afriad about these thing.

Personally when I am in this phase I have a lot of fear about these days because at that time when everyone around me have good and growth life, I feels like I have no potential and I can’t do anything in my life and because of these I just have the unnecessary worry about the future also I just want to some how pass all these days and because of all these stuff in mind I never value the things which I have in my these days. So yeah still sometimes I get this fear and then I remember those benefits which helps me by doing the activites like writing and reading during this phase and really they literally gives me the faith and hope about that I am believe on my belief and I also presonally consider the quote from my one of the favourite actor and it’s like that “Instinct,instinct,instinct over intellect”. Yes like all this stuff I can finally figure out how to deal with all this days without being miserable and unhappy, learns to understand the accept and stillness at a certain level.

So in the end I only want to tell everyone that it is not the wrong time when we have all these types of days in our life. We must need to learn how to accept the change nature of life and not losing our faith from us when the our surroundings are started to change we just keep the believe on our ourselves and tries to do the new thing with a little courage. I know we must need a plan for the future to building a sustainable life and yeah its very necessary, but we must also learn that life was not always be the same way which we are trying to get it instead of these we need to accept its unpredictable flow and learn how we can be in that flow by getting holding the faith and the believe on us.

So now I am hoping maybe you understands why it’s title as the “The Resumable Pause”.

“It’s never about how we deal with the life situations and its phases, it’s always about the acceptance and the faith of beliefs which we have on us.”

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