ABSTRACT:
What does a person do when he/she goes into the initial stage of depression? Depression is the situation when a person thinks that his/her life is meaningless without the support and love of their loved ones. Depression starts when a person feels the vibes of loneliness in his/her life. Any condition can cause depression which can turn into death at any time, any place, anywhere. People do not know the meaning of depression until and unless they fall into the stage of the same. “The sufferer only knows the meaning of suffering, else everyone is there to make that more & tougher” Today is the scenario when a person does not have the time to resettle their relationships but they have such precious time to re-edit their videos and pictures for “n” number of likes in the form of emojis.INTRODUCTION:
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Why Counselling is needed to improve the husband-wife, boyfriend-girlfriend relationships?
To earn love, people are becoming so greedy that they forgot their limits and they are trying to blame each other in the form of revenge, they changed the meaning and definition of love in their lives. Everyone is simply ready to fall in love but they don’t want to come across such fights, or emotional disturbances which have to have happened in any relationship. Everyone is simply ready to go for marriage life but no one is ready to face bitter situations, unwanted compromises, or sacrifices. If they don’t want to understand each other then why they are supposed to promises that are meant to be broken?
“Why do broken-hearted people have the true definition of depression?”
No one can easily elucidate this term as it requires a lot of strength to speak upon the same. Where everyone is running for making money, nobody is focusing upon the mental health which stays with us till the last breath of our life. Money will come and go but mental health is always with you if you promise yourself to stuck with the same. But there is such a long queue outside the mental health-related clinics/hospitals which are dealing with mind-related diseases.
Why young people are dying nowadays at a younger age?
We cannot predict anyone’s age in today’s scenario, as young people are suffering from depression, migraine, etc. related diseases which cannot be cured once it crossed all those limits. The youth which is called the national asset of our country is going to be less in number once it has attracted towards these types of diseases or mental disorders.
Persons at the younger age are more attracted towards illegal activities or those activities which cause harm to their bodies and moreover, it can be turned into a death factor when it crosses all those limits.
For instance, for a person suffering from a breakup, the first step he/she takes i.e., trying to pick up a case of beer/wine/whiskey bottles to banish the memories of their lovers. It will lead to higher quantity as well as amount which further moves towards the deterioration of health gradually.
Why people are approaching towards divorce/break-ups rather than patch-ups/happy relationships?
We can see “n” number of pending cases for divorce-related issues in the different courts all over the country. Nobody is talking about the solving aspect rather they are focusing towards separation, revenge, etc., which not only deteriorates the human health, but moreover, it will lead towards death or such disorders which cannot be cured for a lifetime. People are losing patience day by day and they are turned into villains/devils into their loved one’s life.
It is just a thought game which can change a person’s mind from an innocent personality towards a criminal personality and vice-versa. When a person suffers from any depression, it is all about one thought which can change his/her mind towards the positivity of life in a fruitful manner.
“Why when something bad happened, do we move towards negativity?”
No one can answer the same as all are dealing with this struggle every day. But the irony is no one is taking the initiative to curb all those which actually harm a human life rather we all are approaching towards shortcuts, loss of patience, e.g., suicide, killing, etc.
Conclusion
So, what’s the solution here for the same? It is that a person who is suffering from this mental disorder needs a listener who can actually listen to his/her story at that moment when a person tries to end his/her life will be saved via that listener. This approach can be used to save millions of lives who are suffering from depression related to such activities in their breakups, failures, etc., via giving them lessons of how to love your life unconditionally!
People who are losing patience must go through spiritual journeys/lessons which actually help to build the same for their better health. Spiritual lessons should be taught everywhere irrespective of the nature, whether it is a school, college, university, etc.
Relationships lessons should be taught during the journey of a student’s life so that he/she will learn the pros and cons of a relationship in an efficacious manner. Love should be spread all over the world with the great lessons of life that how someone can be loved unconditionally without demanding from anyone!
Enlightenment towards togetherness should be there to solve the relationship issues, no matter how hard the situation is, a relationship can never be turned into situation.
“When a person tries to pick up a case of beer/wine bottles during their failures journey in a relationship, he/she tries to pick up the spiritual journey which motivates him/her that joy and sorrow are the part & parcel of a life, we should come up as a strong personality rather we should go for the destruction of the journey/life that values a lot for the person who does not have the same. Different Awareness Methods should be adopted to remove this type of disease which can turn an innocent person into a criminal in just nanoseconds of his/her life”.