Many people think suicide is a permanent solution to a problem when it is not solved at once or within a limited time. a tragic choice that's made by an individual who is overwhelmed, heartbroken, and desperate for relief from their emotional pain. Sometimes, people even convince themselves that suicide is the only way to solve their problems. However, this couldn't be further from the truth.

When and in what situations do people commit suicide? Nowadays committing suicide has become very common among young children too. Just for not providing a mobile a ninth-standard boy committed suicide. Another nine-year-old little girl hung herself because her parents scolded her for playing for a long time. This incident occurred very recently. Every year after the 12th results are announced students who failed or scored less marks are taking this drastic decision. I am really surprised. Won't they think killing oneself may be very painful bodily as well as mentally? Won't they think of the agony through which their kith and kin can pass? Even famous personalities like film actors and businessmen commit suicide. Were they not aware of the consequences? What forced them to do so? Committing suicide is cowardly. These people are running away from their duties. The burden falls on the shoulders of the son or daughter. If a father of two children kills himself where will the children go? They will be subjected to all kinds of humiliation.

They are at risk of becoming future criminals. Suicide is a social evil.

Suicide often happens when people feel like they have no way out of their current situation. They might be dealing with a wide range of problems such as financial difficulties, relationship troubles, job loss, or an illness. Whatever the reason, the person believes that the situation is hopeless and that death is the only escape.

What they might not realize is that there are always other options. Talking with a trusted friend, family member, or therapist, can provide emotional support and alleviate some of the pain. Additionally, there are hotlines and support groups specifically designed to help those struggling with mental health issues and suicidal thoughts.

It's important to remember that we all experience tough times in our lives, but they eventually pass. Even when we feel like things can't possibly get worse, they often do improve. There are also many resources available to help individuals deal with the source of their problems and work towards a solution.

Furthermore, it's important to understand that suicide not only ends the individual's pain but creates unbearable pain and enduring trauma for their loved ones. Family members might feel that there was something more they could have done to prevent the tragic loss. This pain could last forever in their lifetime.

How to avoid such suicidal thoughts? 

1. First a person should know about one's own self. His strength and weaknesses.
2. Trust in God. Have a boundless unconditional faith in God.
3. God has a specific intention for every individual. God has fixed a goal for each and every person.
4. Hence a person should have a self-realisation. At every important juncture, he must analyze himself.

Any man who gets clarity to achieve his goal becomes successful in life. A person with clarity will always be alert. He or she will know the difference between the right and wrong actions. Such people will never do anything which may not suit their caliber. Life is beautiful, meaningful, and wonderful. Human life is meant for helping others, helping the downtrodden. Why should anyone end their life without any purpose? Human wants are insatiable. A person shouldn't end his /her life just because the desires are unfulfilled. Also, failure isn't the end, but it is the beginning. Start a new series. A new era must be sown.

Suicide is a curse. Even in a toughest situation, people should be strong and bold.

A word to parents. Please talk to your children every day. Don't make them feel dejected, depressed, or lonely. This is very dangerous.

Word to young girls. If someone is sexually harassing you, you should be brave enough to face it and report it to the police.

Committing suicide will help in no way. Fear, lack of self-confidence, hesitation, and giving importance to the words of insignificant people are some of the factors which drive people to commit suicide.

Lastly committing suicide may be a happy end for a dying person but certainly, it is a sorrowful journey for the rest of the family members throughout their life.

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