Everyone is too busy and hurry up to define things, define life, and understand it first...before getting involved, go along with it, be with it, show interest, like it somehow you know. However, finding true meaning never becomes easy when we try to understand or try to find truth. We try we fail ipso facto whether we like it or not.

Now, what are we really looking for? Think. Why are we loathing before experiencing? Are we disliking it before we know why it works or not? Are we liking it just because it is convenient or something else? Why thinking dominates feeling, reason dominates wisdom, judgment dominates empathy and compassion.

Meaning – the state of understanding is the result of good exploration or learning, not vis-à-vis. It is the end product of feeling things around, people we are interacting with…and allowing the flow to settle down to see what actually remains, you know, how much of matter really matters….as I understand, the essence that makes everyone feel good, feel calm, and at ease. That is the real thing that can need to be considered as a good data point for the right understanding.

Such data points as a result of experience make the best of right meaning to the context instead of starting with some pre-conceived or any history related to the context…it may be helpful in brainstorming or taking some cues but based on the past one may not be able to come to the right meaning of the current context or define anything now.

Instead of finding the meaning, new meaning should find us every moment we live on. Instead of thinking, worrying, judging, and reasoning it’d be easy to be in tune with self within and feel and be involved in the present moment to perceive everything unconditionally. Allowing wisdom, humility, and feeling to dominate our actions instead of hurrying to display our intelligence, ego, or thinking. Instead of fighting to prove self, prove that together we can synapse towards new meaning. Instead of getting into a whirlpool of emotions with some pre-conceived understanding, opening ourselves to experience that the things around us shall open up new vistas and the right result…..

Lest, we become "mean" or "meaner" in finding "meaning" of or defining ourselves or others. Instead, let go of emotions and open our hearts out to learn and explore everything around us and let meaning find us, not we find any meaning.

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