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Just wondering what my 3 a.m. thought would be like...
One that never defies me and never backs me off:
"NO STRINGS ATTACHED."
One might be wondering why anyone would want this while people are craving relationships that stay, a pinch of true love they could at least taste once in their lifetime. Yes, but with all the audacity, I would ask: have you been through people who are just watering dead relationships they don't even feel to be in?
That gives me a thought of what is stopping them from ending it. Of course, that would be our so dear lamest excuse: the societal norms, the responsibilities, the questions they have to answer if they part their ways. Be it a married relationship or a parental relationship where everyone is confined to stay together whether they feel it or not.
Isn't that scary? At least for me, it is! Two people staying under the same roof, not knowing each other truly, and continuing to stay forever with the tag of happiness... scary it is.
Love is everyone's right, and it comes with responsibilities and efforts. How much they care for the other one, or be it themselves, it isn't a cage of societal norms and should never be one. Like people say, love is in the air, but that shouldn't make someone scared to breathe.
If love represents freedom, one should be able to accept the decisions that their loved ones make. After all, it's a home that's built with trust, not compromises. The look a divorced person gets or a broken youngster should change. She/he has their part in the story. Their life events don't have to change them from being an ideal example or to be pointed out. Everyone has their own devil's share in life.
Why is it so hard to love everything in life, to love every kind of human, or to love someone for what they are? It has nothing to do with your life. It's the world you were born to love, live, laugh, not to judge, hate, and make enemies. Isn't it ideal to stay with no strings attached, love everything that comes into your life, and embrace moments and people of all sorts of ups and downs and demean none?
Again, no strings attached to the good or bad. No strings attached to the past events. No strings attached to the cages or the masks we are buried in. Be you, who you really are deep down there.