Mental health issues, at this point, cannot be considered as personal issues anymore. We are now living in an age of hustle, competitiveness, and pressure to establish ourselves, and if our mental health is not taken care of, it will suffer. And this suffering is reality of millions of individuals. To make it worse we aren’t even aware that we are suffering due to lack of awareness.
As soon as we start thinking or comprehending this world, in some way, we start feeling the worldly pressure to establish ourselves, please people around us, along with that we have our own story of "not so pleasant experiences" that add up to our vulnerability. A vulnerability that one must hide, one should never address because this vulnerability will show how weak we are therefore one should hide it, keep themselves busy and forget the pain rather than healing it or addressing it.
To cope with all of these, we develop defence or coping mechanisms such as "people pleasing", "self-sabotaging", "repressing our feelings, memories, or emotions" or perhaps simply ignoring ourselves for the sake of peace which ultimately lead to issues in the long run. Issues without solutions.
We have many solutions or at least are trying to come up with a wide variety of solutions for many modern problems, but mental health issues have always been underestimated unless the issue leads to a crisis. Instead of finding solutions, we tend to normalize these issues, which gives rise to toxic environments, problematic behaviours of people, unnecessary complexities in relationships, mass aggression, and unhealthy educational cultures.
In the beginning, when we look at mental health problems, it may appear like everything is very personal. However, once we start understanding the problem, we will find that mental health concerns are caused by the vicious circle of interaction between an individual and society.
Let's take the example of toxic education culture, where the purpose of education is not development or learning, but to compare who is better than whom. In these settings, children are graded, and based on their grades, they are assigned ranks in class. Rank determines how they are treated in class or in society. There will be numerous negative effects on students if this mind-set is promoted, as the ones who are not able to perform well will not only feel pressured but will also experience lower self-esteem, resulting in hopelessness or may develop a self-handicapping defence mechanism. In extreme cases it may lead to anxiety or depression. Likewise, those who are doing well may suffer from imposter syndrome (the feeling that nothing they do is good enough) as a result of excessive competitiveness, or they may feel too pressured to hold onto their positions no matter what or they may become too selfabsorbed that they focus on themselves alone, and in the long run, they become overbearing or unable to handle failures.
This rank based culture does not create learned individuals or motivate people to gain knowledge, rather it makes them rank oriented or number oriented. When these children become adults, they either have low self-esteem, feel lost in life, can't handle failure well, or suffer from imposter syndrome. In the worst cases, they may even believe this is normal and promote this view. Therefore, the cycle will repeat itself with upcoming generations. Now while keeping a child’s mental health in our mind if we develop a healthy learning environment where the children are not ranked but graded and every time their grade improve even a little, we as a system encourage them and when they face difficulties in learning, instead of discouraging them by comparing them to their peers/siblings or by insulting them, we try to help them out or understand their problem, it will help them to learn. To complement this, we can encourage children to help each other rather than instil unhealthy competition in them, and rather than pressuring children over grades, we should make them aware of the importance of learning what they are receiving. And while growing up we should make them aware how vast and unpredictable this world is therefore everything that happens in life is a part of life not the life itself. No matter what we do in our lives, our job, success, failure, or any other event in our lives, nothing defines us or defines who we are. Your actions do impact your life, but the impact is ever-changing, and you always have the power to bring about the changes you desire.
Here, the education system is emphasized because our education has a huge impact on us as we receive it at an early age and it shapes who we are as individuals. Therefore, if we are to bring about change, it should commence from the very start.
In addition to this toxic education culture, there are countless other cultures or practices present in our society or in our day-to-day lives that negatively affect our mental health. To be honest, it's really difficult to change everything that's prevalent in society, so mental health awareness is essential in our society. Upon being aware of the positive practices, we will often avoid or at least try to avoid the negative practices, knowing what their consequences are. When we are suffering, if there is awareness, seeking help won't be a stigma or matter of shame anymore. People won't look down on people who reach out for help or mistreat them either.
It is truly sad that people believe suffering or dying is more respectable or worthy than taking assistance.
Most people are unaware of what they are going through and a little professional help can make things a whole lot better and we have to make people understand that, worsening mental peace or stability is not a phase, but a call for help from our mind; therefore, seek it out before it’s too late. Unless there is a right intervention at right time by a right person, no one can be saved. Therefore mental health awareness is important. Not only when a person is at a dead end, but awareness is important even to prevent people from going down that path.
Having awareness will create more professionals that we are commendably lacking even in today's world.
Let me offer some alarming statistics to demonstrate why mental health ignorance is a matter that should be addressed. Though these data were collected and compiled in 2019 and before, the condition hasn't improved much yet.
According to the data presented above, these are the few countries that are in a dystopian situation, and with increasing area considered, the situation gets worse. However, countries like Denmark, the United Kingdom, and Germany are doing relatively well, whereas countries like India, China, and South Korea etc. should be more concerned with the mental well-being of their citizens.
A discussion of the problem alone is not sufficient; we must also look for the solutions, so we should engage together in this endeavour.
Here are a few possible solutions in this context:
The importance of mental health is not just a trend or a social media sensation, it is a reality and people need to be taught how to care for their mental well-being in their dayto-day lives. If the incidents of suicide, depression, violence, anger, people beating each other to death, or companies putting their employees to work until they are numb aren't eye opening enough I don't know what is.
Having true mental health awareness will not completely resolve these problems, but it
will aid individuals in learning how to deal with all of them. It will enhance empathy in individuals and perhaps in the long run it will make people more empathetic towards each other. Most importantly, mental health awareness will make individuals realise that they are not alone in their struggles. It will help them realize that they are not weak or ill because of themselves or their fault. Instead, they got hurt or are unable to do something because of the situation they came from. If they are in pain, they need healing rather than inspiration, motivation, or strength to get through it all on their own.
Mental health related problems require treatment and time to heal just like physical health.
For an instance, whenever our leg breaks, the doctor plasters it and advises us to rest. Imagine if, instead of doing that, he started blaming us or motivating us, or tries to push us to walk. Do you think that would help heal us more quickly or properly? No right? Similarly, if we have mental health issues, it's not our fault, we need treatment rather than motivation, sweet talk, or blame.
Let us imagine we have a sprained leg and instead of receiving treatment from professionals, we are told to ignore the pain because a tough person would do that. What do you think will happen then?
Naturally, this would lead to a worse problem or, if it heals, it would not heal properly, which would result in a deformed body structure.
By the same token, ignoring mental health for the sake of being "tough" would lead to nothing but disaster in the long run.
Thus all these detrimental practises, inimical culture and misleading mind-sets need to be changed.
Promotion of mental health professions is another issue that needs to be addressed. It is important to reward people who work for mental health, to motivate children to pursue careers in this field, and to show them what kind of careers they can go for after finishing their studies. There are many benefits to hiring mental health professionals, including increasing work satisfaction of the labour force, increasing the productivity of human resources to a significant degree and understanding people and their needs.
Finally, I would like to conclude by stating that mental health awareness is increasingly important to bring about numerous changes in society and to save a large number of people from suffering. Mind can make the body hundred times stronger but if it is wounded, traumatized or blank no matter how strong our body is, we cannot recover. We can hide what we are feeling, but hiding is not healing.
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