Introduction

Highly attracted towards the phrase, I selected “Phoenix from pains” as a title for my writing. Anyone who is reading the article and those might have overcome difficulties with a smile, have tolerated defeats with a grin, have built up their broken edges in their life with a delight can relate to the title and the content of the article. Probably everyone has something stored up in their deep thoughts but couldn’t find an opportunity to express, can get the feel of satisfaction in reading the article. The title is relatable to everyone who has risen up as phoenix from their disasters which is quite common in life.

 It may differ from each and everyone but there is something untold in everyone. Some might have been struck by the problems of life and couldn’t find a path to get clarity or a hand to hold their hands tightly and give some words of faith, confidence, which might be a change over for their problems. As a writer through my words, I can be those hands that could render your faith and confidence and transform your fears, sorrows and pains at least to some extent. My words can be a source of energy to find the lost phoenix in you. My words can awaken you and bury the fear for life, unleash the faith in you. If we didn’t get the opportunity to undergo pains and worries we wouldn’t realise the sweetness and worth of this beautiful life.

Pains of life

There are hundreds of diseases that might keep us immobilized depending upon the impact caused by the severity of the diseases. Some are life threatening and some causes serious illness that may transform life into a tragic event. We are not able to search for reasons for it. Though heredity is the main cause, which is transmitted through genes, many other diseases are causeless. It’s not easy to overcome any of the diseases, it might be less or more serious. There are no age criteria for being caught up with a disease. At any age anyone can be immersed in any disease. How we manage to make over life with the diseases that haunt us like nightmares every second we live on earth help us emerge out as phoenix. When we are a victim of a disease, it not only affects our wellbeing but also it affects the entire family and people around us, who love us, who care for us. Their life will also become tragic by assisting us by all means.

Every day new diseases are manifested and diagnosed but only some can be treated whereas most of the diseases are mere puzzles and treatments are not yet invented. May be the severity of some diseases can be lessened with medications and treatments, complete recovery is impossible for most of the diseases. Apparently, in the course of time we get practiced living along with the diseases. I had listened to hundreds of such stories that had surprised me, had made me speechless hearing their tolerance to defiant over pains, turmoil and sufferings as valiant soldiers.

They are the super humans who had overcome difficulties and had led a worthy life defeating all threats life had indulged on them. They (I mean everyone who had overcome difficulties with ease) are like soldiers with hundreds of swords piercing their bodies, yet those woke up with valor and determination even when life had hit them the hardest. They arise with a strong potential that is beautified with power and strength that can be obtained only through the course of non-denial legacy life had imposed on them. The courage that is within every one of us, in disguise, will get explored only when we get a chance to face an opponent in the form of threats left in front of us in the path of our enduring life.

Pain is not caused by looking after age or criteria, it is caused by anyone. Initially it will be the hardest task to bear the pain. Any new experience both for the body and mind is difficult for the body to accept. As time goes on, the body learns to adapt to the pain. When pain accumulates over and over the body becomes used to it. Pain couldn’t be defined with a particular measurement. The intensity of the pain makes the person sick and vulnerable. Amidst that sickness we should try to lead a good life. It is possible only by gaining the inner strength which is silently inherent within everybody. The most vulnerable pain is the one created to demolish your inner peace when your love or affection towards someone is underrated. But that too can be overcome with only one mind-blowing theory “If your love is underestimated or not valued mind it that person doesn’t deserve you, and not worthy for your genuine love”. Just learn to step forward and start loving people who truly deserve it.

Overcome pain

Obviously the first preparation for the day is tea. A cup of tea soothes, enlightens, lifts our mood but it depends on how well you prepare it. Perfect color, thickness and taste makes it heavenly. So as life, it’s in our hands to prepare it, prayers, love, faith, hope, courage … everything if added at right proportion and if jealousy, vengeance, hatred are filtered like filtering the boiled tea dust to make an enriched tea decoction, the addition of positivity and filtration of negativity will help us to make life heavenly like a delightful sip of tea.

Every story begins once upon a time and ends with happily lived ever after. But in a true life it's impossible for it to happen in anyone's life. Life couldn't be quite easy for all. People are inflicted with a variety of problems, and it varies from one person to another. If one problem is solved the other problems will be in the queue. If the problems are immensely great, trust the instincts that we are brave enough to handle them and manage them with grace. Yet we need not worry about them as by themselves, these problems find their solutions as time passes by. Believe in the criteria “Anyway Life moves on” and “Life will move on”.

Consider every success is a steppingstone for another success and when you feel desperate about every failure consider it teaches its own lesson. Both success and failure mold us, fine tune us into a better version of ourselves. Success or failure doesn’t mean we have to achieve climbing the tallest cliff or swimming across harsh waves in the deep oceans. Success or failure refers to how we live in the day today life, how we go through joy, happiness and sorrows, pains accordingly. Each one of us is blessed with a beautiful life. These thoughts help us to accept the true sovereignty of life. How we pass on every day and every person matters. How gently we have touched the hearts matter. We are not going to be rewarded for what we have pursued in life for ourselves. The award for life is given by us to ourselves in the form of happiness and satisfaction that are visible only to us.

Lives of many had touched my heart and been a guideline and inspiration to overcome difficulties life has induced on me. When I went through the agonies of pain, I hadn’t thought of telling someone about my profound starvation for happiness. If that’s going to be a survival guide to someone else, why wouldn’t I? We can’t go in search of happiness somewhere, it’s within us, lost in ourselves, only we have to investigate the lost happiness work on it, and accomplish and illuminate the happiness with due trust “yes we can”.

Every day is a new day accomplished with new experiences. Some days pass out with pleasant experience and some other days pass out with awful experience. But the intention we opt to accept the days make the experience either pleasant or awful. We in course of time learn to bring an equilibrium in managing the fluctuations in life. We have to learn it to pass on a life with peace. Every day we grow, in the sense both in knowledge and age, success and failure. There are no such criteria as perfection because the same thing which we considered as perfect is a mere crap after a year. In a year our perfection is fine tuned to excellence. That is how we calculate progress in life.

Our perspective changes with the ageing. Is there a logic in the idea of predicting what can be done, or what cannot be done in future? Apparently, we couldn't predict the future. Unknowingly we are undergoing transformation as we age with experience.

Learn life, in the process of learning life enjoy the little gestures, invent yourself in every feature of happiness, pain and vain. And that lessons will stay with us forever. Those are the foot prints we leave behind us forever, that can be remembered in the hearts eternally.

I, you and everyone out there have never dreamt of life with horror. When we promise to love ourselves, we can survive defeating the horror as warriors with fearless shields. An armory that is built inside bursts out to fight for us only when we love ourselves. Love yourself! If not you then who will? Yes, there are people who have survived cancer after all pains inflicted in them after surgeries and chemotherapy.

 In the process they are entirely changed into different person in look losing their beauty which once they had adored. When I am dropped down out of hope I go through their survival stories. Cure of any disease is only done half by medicines the other half is the inner strength to fight against it. Both has to work simultaneously to revert back to normal living. That is the secret to overcome any kind of pain or disease.

C’est la vie

An adorable French word that always has a rhythm inside me as my heartbeat. C’ est la vie means “that’s life”. Yep that is life with ups and downs, with tides and calmness, with hurricanes and breeze, with darkness and light but what we prefer to make us happier matters though struck with hardest trials of life.

There are sufferings that are more tormenting than mine, more vulnerable than mine, more challenging than mine. The people with those challenges have the ability to overcome it. They fight against fear. Fear of survival, fear of existence and they succeed in their daily invisible Warfield with the dare to face the weapons of sorrows, torment and agonies.

Choose peace
A high-profile relaxant
A priceless medication
For a pristine soul
That soothes after wreckage!
The greatest of boons
Eternal castle for life
For the yearning heart
That drowned in torment!
The wisdom with serenity
Accomplished only by self
For the moaning mind
That deliberately sunk in wrath!
The manifest of attribution
The harvest of every thought
For peace is the pinnacle of success
Attained only with contentment!

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