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No one will get the answer to this.
Everyone feels that the one who committed suicide is his own fault because he had already given up and taken his own life.
50% it is true that he gave up and did not try.
If only he had tried 100% then his life would have changed and he would have been alive.
We all think the same, but have we ever put ourselves in his place, what was going on in his mind then, what would he have tried? would he have told his problem to someone or not? would he have sought help from someone?
Why did he decide to kill in the end? Why did he give up hope of living? Was he so helpless? Didn't think about anyone and got engaged to death.
Such questions are raised in everyone's mind, and no one has an answer, Because when that person is alive, everyone does not think much about him, but when that person dies, then everyone is forced to think.
Why so?
A person gives up on his life and leaves the world, only then everyone thinks that if he had told something, they could have helped him. Could have given him hope to live.
But it was written to live only this much in his life, the line of life was drawn in his destiny only this much.
No matter what anyone could have done in that, everything is already written by God. Perhaps he must have done bad deeds in some birth, he has got the result now. By making up all these things, we all hide our mistakes and go ahead by saying that it is the fault of that person.
What else do we know? Always ignore the truth.
Every year many people commit suicide, which is not easy to count because it keeps on increasing. It is not that the reason for suicide is only in underdeveloped countries, it is also happening in rich developed countries. According to me, suicide is like a disease, if it is treated at the right time, then that person can be saved.
If the thought of in another way, before killing himself, a person tries everything they should do to live. A person gives up only when all the roads are blocked for him, no hope is visible, and life seems meaningless to him, then he takes the last decision, to end himself, whose name is suicide!
However, if we give someone who is mentally lost hope, listen to what he has to say, and encourage him, then we can improve the situation. It is seen in many places that before death a person shares his all things with his close people such as his parents, siblings, and friends. But when the people close to him do not understand his things, then that person breaks down. He could not find any reason to live. Everyone feels that how can someone die in such a small thing, but only that person knows when such a small thing becomes big.
Poor people, rich people, and all kinds of people take such steps, and everyone's reason is only one, to lose his life.
This is my request to all, that all the people living in your house, around you, and close to you if you ever feel like this about them, talk to them and encourage them to live. If any of his remarks are unclear to you, explain to him why he should understand after speaking with his family and friends.
If we want, we can save someone's life.