Love is the hardest piece to find in the puzzle of life. To love someone is not easy. When you realize that a person means so much to you that you can do anything for them without wanting something in return, that is love. And before you know it, it becomes your addiction. It claws through your mind and heart to take a part of you and never return it. You lose a little of yourself when you fall in love. At the start, it may seem easy to have fun and feel foolish around your person, but soon the fog covering your eyes from reality is not there anymore and you see what it was truly like. The feeling of wanting to be seen and heard by that one person is the strongest of all. Love is not just a feeling, it becomes a massive part of what you are. It feels incredible to be loved, but it is hard to love someone the way they want.
Everybody has different choices and to find someone who fits with you like a missing piece of the puzzle is the rarest of all things in the world. Love is not what you struggle for, it is the most natural feeling you feel around someone. And if it isn’t easy to just be, it is not love. Loving someone can give you the greatest pleasure of your life or the worst torture. But finding the right person for yourself can make you the happiest person alive. Love often finds its way and never leaves if it's truly meant to be. When you are in love, the person becomes your life and their arms become your home. You lose yourself in their eyes as if they are a small world of their own. As if nothing else matters other than having them in your life. And true love doesn’t need to pass any tests or overcome any obstacles in its path because it is written in your destiny.
A small moment with someone can mean the world to you whereas doing everything with someone else can result in nothing. And love doesn’t mean trying to be with someone when you are failing constantly. Love is the feeling when it happens involuntarily. You don’t have to try so hard to keep yourself from falling apart. If it's breaking you, it’s not love. Love should feel like an addiction that you don’t want to get away from. There is no rehab for the addiction to love. You just have to want it bad enough and love finds you.
Having someone to love is a privilege that only the lucky ones get. And if you are lucky enough, it stays with you for the rest of your life. Finding true love at an early age is a rare moment. But if you feel even a little spark with someone and it gives you the thoughts of having a future with that person, then they are the one for you. Love doesn’t come again and again. Catch it before it runs out. You have a lot of love to give but don’t waste it on someone who doesn’t deserve it. A person’s love is the most precious feeling. It should be preserved for the right one.
Every time it feels right, it doesn’t mean it is true love. It may be the initial hormonal feeling when you are attracted to someone. That feeling is like a drug. You can’t seem to get enough of it. But you should come out of its influence before it ends you. Before it turns its ugly head towards you, you should be brave enough to get out of there. Escaping from the addiction that is love is not easy for everyone but you have to claw your way out. And sometimes, the only way out is through all the pain, the relapses, the cruel memories, and the glimpse of happy moments. But these are not enough to get high on this drug for the rest of your life. Love does not have to mean all happy times, but it does not mean you suffer under the influence.
Love should be like an ocean under the bright sun, sparkling and shining on the surface but also deep and clear of all toxicity on the inside. The ocean of love should be filled with millions of fish of happy moments that give life to the deep and vast ocean. Love is not only about having fun with your partner, but it is also about the trust and understanding between you, the individuality of a person, and the confidence you have in each other.
You don’t have to be lost to find love, but when you love someone truly, you seem to find yourself more profoundly even when you didn’t know you were lost. But losing yourself in loving someone is not love. Fixing each other and finding the missing pieces and placing them right is what love is all about. Love is easy to come but hard to let go. It is the easiest when you want it but hardest to keep when you are struggling. But if it stays with you through your hard times, it is meant to be forever.
Everyone has an ideal story for their love. But love comes at different times and in different forms. Most people are not lucky to find the right way they want to be loved. Some find it even better than what they expected, but others get the worst of it. Some love stories go on forever while some end before they even start. Love doesn’t make you work hard to find it, but you should be careful where you end up investing your feelings. Sometimes the person is right but the circumstances lead you to believe otherwise, but sometimes, it is just the person that was wrong and you keep blaming yourself for sins you didn’t commit.
There is someone for everyone in this world, but people don’t find their person often. They fall for the wrong one and their belief in love is shattered like their heart. But many fall for the right one just at the wrong time. They unintentionally hurt the person they love the most and can’t seem to stop trying to correct their fault out of guilt that kills them every single living moment of their lives. But mistakes happen and everybody deserves a second chance if they are willing to change for the better and truly commit to their one true love. After all, love is love and everybody deserves it.